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March 13, 2026
My mother's best advice: you're allowed to enjoy nice things
Whether it was a solo trip to a cafe, a nice lipstick or merely wandering around a shop that was out of her price range, my mum showed me that a little luxury goes a long way
TL;DR
- The author's mother taught her the importance of enjoying nice things and allowing herself to have them.
- She believed in the restorative power of treats and often took solo trips or indulged in small luxuries.
- Despite a childhood of financial hardship, she developed the confidence to pursue and enjoy nice things.
- The author inherited her mother's advice but not her nerve, often feeling intimidated in luxurious settings.
- She now consciously channels her mother's spirit to overcome self-doubt and grant herself permission for indulgent experiences.
- The author reflects on the power of self-indulgence, especially during difficult times, and the fleeting nature of life.
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