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Couples Who Are 'Emotionally Secure' Regularly Talk About 8 Things, Says Harvard-Trained Psychologist

Building a trusting relationship is the goal for most couples. Harvard-trained psychologist Dr. Cortney Warren shares eight things emotionally secure couples talk about to have a happy and successful relationship.

Couples Who Are 'Emotionally Secure' Regularly Talk About 8 Things, Says Harvard-Trained Psychologist

TL;DR

  • Regular check-ins help couples stay aligned and show they care about each other's lives.
  • Asking how a partner wants to be appreciated ensures love is expressed in a meaningful way.
  • Differentiating between needing advice or just a listening ear is crucial for effective communication.
  • Offering practical help can alleviate a partner's burden, even if they initially say 'I'm fine'.
  • Scheduling dedicated time to talk helps couples connect amidst busy lives.
  • Discussing the state of the relationship is important for making repairs and fostering connection.
  • Engaging in fun, shared activities strengthens the bond through play and joy.
  • Asking about larger themes a partner is working through helps maintain closeness as they evolve.