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February 24, 2026
Single Mom Got Paid $10,000 to Move to Oklahoma—Why She Ended Up Staying: It Changed Our Lives ‘For the Better’
"I imagined that our time in Tulsa would be memorable, but I couldn't quite anticipate the ways it would change our lives for the better," says Allison Irby Vu.
TL;DR
- The author moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma, in 2021 with her son through the Tulsa Remote program, receiving a $10,000 relocation grant.
- What began as a temporary move evolved into a significant life change, offering affordability, community, and personal growth.
- The author experienced a slower pace of life, allowing for rest, creativity, and the pursuit of passion projects, including starting her own business.
- Her son also benefited, developing skills, joining teams, and building connections with positive male role models.
- The experience challenged the author's assumptions about living in a "red state" as a woman of color, leading to meaningful connections and a greater sense of civic participation.
- Tulsa provided a sense of belonging, community, and a feeling of home that was not initially anticipated.
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