health
February 9, 2026
This is how we do it: ‘Having sex with other people brought us closer, but also exposed insecurities’
Amber feared having sex with other women had ruined the best thing in her life, but Todd says exploring together has ultimately strengthened their partnership How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously
TL;DR
- Todd and Amber became a couple in 2023, developing a deep connection and satisfaction in their sexual relationship.
- Both partners are experiencing hormonal changes, with Amber perimenopausal and Todd dealing with low testosterone and erectile difficulties.
- They decided to explore Amber's attraction to women, which involved sexual encounters with other couples.
- Todd found the experience destabilizing, struggling with seeing Amber with another man while facing his own physical challenges.
- Honesty and open communication, even when uncomfortable, are highlighted as crucial for their relationship's success.
- Amber's attraction to women has been fulfilled, and she enjoys watching Todd with other women, finding these experiences have brought them closer.
- Despite separate sleeping arrangements due to Amber's light sleep and night sweats, they maintain intimacy through daily rituals.
- The article includes a call for readers to share their own sex life stories anonymously.
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