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March 10, 2026

‘Charismatic and extremely confident’: how to recognise

Psychologist Leanne ten Brinke has spent decades studying toxic personality traits. What are the red flags to look out for among workmates, politicians and potential partners?

‘Charismatic and extremely confident’: how to recognise

TL;DR

  • Dark personality traits such as psychopathy, narcissism, and sadism are prevalent in various life contexts, not just criminal ones.
  • These traits exist on a continuum, with elevated levels causing disproportionate harm, and can be influenced by both nature and nurture.
  • While adult personality is resistant to change, behavior can be managed through strategies like setting clear boundaries and rewarding positive actions.
  • Recognizing "dark personalities" can help in making informed choices in personal and professional relationships.
  • Key indicators include excessive confidence mistaken for competence, manipulative behavior, lack of empathy, impulsivity, and a tendency to demean others.
  • Dealing with individuals with dark traits requires a harm-reduction mindset, focusing on managing interactions rather than changing their core personality.

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