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The kindness of strangers: I was taken aback by a rude remark. Then it hit me

I vividly remember thinking how out of line she was. But as I thought more about what she said, I realised she’d done me a favour

The kindness of strangers: I was taken aback by a rude remark. Then it hit me

TL;DR

  • The author was building a house and dealing with a demanding career, travel, parenting, and marriage challenges.
  • A lighting shop owner made a blunt comment about others having it worse, which initially offended the author.
  • The author realized the comment was right and that perspective is crucial.
  • This perspective shift helped him cope with severe health issues, including cancer.
  • He maintains a positive outlook by remembering that many people have greater struggles.