This is how we do it: ‘The dark room is a judgment-free place, where we can live out fantasies together’
Sex parties allow Conrad and Callum to explore their desires in a safe space – and as couple
TL;DR
- Conrad and Callum attend sex-positive queer parties every few months.
- They have an unspoken agreement to maintain connection and not disappear from each other during exploration.
- Their only rule is to keep the connection and be aware of where the other person is.
- They find that these nights lead to more free and explorative sex when they return home.
- The dark room at the parties is described as a judgment-free place to live out fantasies and explore with others.
- The couple has been together for four years and living together for two.
- They have adapted their sexual intimacy, as both have experience topping.
- Callum notes that his favorite moments with Conrad are non-sexual, like orbiting each other in their flat.