'I’ve lost everything – my child, my house, my money’: how Israel’s war on Gaza has changed men

The impact of the conflict on Palestinian men is a largely undiscussed topic. Four civilians talk about their lives and relationships

'I’ve lost everything – my child, my house, my money’: how Israel’s war on Gaza has changed men

TL;DR

  • The war in Gaza has profoundly affected Palestinian men, leading to the loss of careers, homes, and loved ones.
  • Displacement and living in tents have resulted in a lack of privacy, creating emotional silence and hindering open communication within families.
  • Men experience a shift in their sense of self, feeling a loss of accomplishment and purpose derived from work and studies.
  • The war has brought about feelings of helplessness, anger, and sadness, particularly concerning the inability to provide for their families.
  • Despite the devastation, some men adapt to new realities, find purpose in survival, and develop a stronger appreciation for family bonds.
  • Younger men face challenges in envisioning their future, including marriage and rebuilding their lives, while feeling a responsibility to repopulate and restore the land.
  • The personal experiences of Ahmed, Nidal, Hussein, and Hamza illustrate the diverse yet shared struggles faced by men during the conflict.