health
March 1, 2026
This is how we do it: ‘We schedule sex ahead
Being spontaneous is overrated, say Mia and Elijah, who find timetabling sex means it never gets forgotten
TL;DR
- Mia and Elijah have been together for nearly 30 years and have sex approximately 2.5 times per week.
- They schedule their sexual encounters in advance, viewing it as a way to ensure intimacy is prioritized.
- The couple has developed rituals around their planned sex sessions, including specific timings and activities.
- They find that scheduled sex, despite being planned, is often more enjoyable and fulfilling than spontaneous encounters.
- Elijah emphasizes his laid-back nature but finds that organization in this area has brought significant benefits.
- Mia notes that planning sex is not a sign of trouble but rather an active way to nurture their desire.
- The couple uses sex toys and cannabis during their sessions and believes their routines have led to consistently great sexual experiences.
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