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I’ve Finally Hit My Midlife Crisis. How Do I Know What I’m Meant to Do?

Knowing time is finite is not easy, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But you’re not alone in this feeling

I’ve Finally Hit My Midlife Crisis. How Do I Know What I’m Meant to Do?

TL;DR

  • Midlife crisis can arrive quietly, bringing feelings of burnout and uncertainty about life's direction.
  • Clarity on what one is 'meant to do' isn't always about a singular career path, but can be found in personal growth and experiences.
  • The awareness of finite time, while causing grief and regret, is also what makes life valuable and meaningful.
  • Recognizing that others share similar feelings of uncertainty can help quiet the inner voice demanding a definitive answer to life's purpose.
  • Life's preciousness stems from its finitude, encouraging us to value connections and experiences.