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February 16, 2026

The one change that worked: When good things happen, I write them down

Growing up in a turbulent household taught me to expect the worst. Then one day I found £20 in the street and shifted my thinking

The one change that worked: When good things happen, I write them down

TL;DR

  • The author was a chronic worrier, always expecting negative outcomes due to a difficult childhood.
  • A turning point occurred when the author started documenting every good thing that happened, no matter how small.
  • This practice created a self-fulfilling prophecy, as the author's brain began to actively seek and notice more positive events.
  • The evidence-based list serves as a reminder that good things are happening, even on difficult days.
  • This method is presented as a more concrete and less artificial alternative to traditional gratitude journaling.

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