‘It was a wipeout’: how a family came back from a wife and mother’s murder

When Stuart Green’s wife, an environmental rights lawyer, was shot dead in a car in front of her children in the Philippines, he found books on grief little help. So he wrote his own

‘It was a wipeout’: how a family came back from a wife and mother’s murder

TL;DR

  • Stuart Green's wife, Mia Mascariñas-Green, was murdered in the Philippines, with their three children present in the car.
  • Green found existing books on grief unhelpful and decided to write his own, 'The Regenerate Leap'.
  • The book's core concept is 'regeneration,' defined as transforming pain into purpose.
  • Green uses the metaphor of a pine cone, whose seeds are released by fire, to illustrate how crises can reveal dormant strengths.
  • His eldest daughter, Grace Sr., who testified in court at age 10, plans to become a lawyer like her mother.