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April 27, 2026

My beloved grandfather is dying. I’m so grateful for the intergenerational joy we’ve shared

Pa is a cheeky and playful person. He taught me how to joke, negotiate, heckle. His warmth is his immeasurable wealth

My beloved grandfather is dying. I’m so grateful for the intergenerational joy we’ve shared

TL;DR

  • The author's grandfather, Pa, is dying, prompting reflection on their close intergenerational relationship.
  • The author values their bond with Pa more than financial inheritances often received by friends.
  • Pa has lived closely with family, integrating into their daily lives across generations.
  • Key memories include a shared mischievous adventure and Pa helping restore a vintage cabinet.
  • Pa has documented his life story, shared life lessons, and created handcrafted keepsakes for the family.
  • The author highlights the concept of "intergenerational joy" as opposed to "intergenerational trauma".
  • Pa's warmth, playful nature, and shared knowledge are considered his immeasurable wealth.

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