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The hill I will die on: Food-sharing is gross without serious rules of engagement

No trying my dessert, no tasting my drink, and definitely no double-dipping. I don’t care if it makes me sound precious or a germophobe

The hill I will die on: Food-sharing is gross without serious rules of engagement

TL;DR

  • The author recalls her childhood reaction to her uncle's aversion to sharing drinks due to contamination concerns.
  • Despite Indian culture often emphasizing food sharing, the author has developed strict personal rules about not sharing food or drinks.
  • She believes that cultural norms around food sharing can be problematic when they involve unsanitary practices like double-dipping or using the same utensil for multiple dishes.
  • The COVID-19 pandemic intensified her germ-consciousness, leading her to refuse sharing drinks or food from others' plates.
  • She experienced vindication when a friend who called her 'precious' for refusing to try food from her plate subsequently fell ill with a cold.