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Highly charismatic people use 5 'magnetic' phrases to be more likable, says public speaking expert

Public speaking expert and author Vanessa Van Edwards reveals the phrases that highly charismatic people use to build better relationships.

Highly charismatic people use 5 'magnetic' phrases to be more likable, says public speaking expert

TL;DR

  • Charisma is learned, not innate, and can be developed through specific conversational techniques.
  • Five phrases can help individuals appear more magnetic and build stronger connections.
  • The phrase 'I was hoping I'd run into you' makes others feel good about themselves and your presence.
  • 'You're going to love this' creates a sense of shared excitement and belonging.
  • Asking 'What was that like for you?' shows genuine interest and makes others feel heard.
  • 'I always leave our conversations thinking…' validates the value of the relationship and its impact.
  • 'I've been wanting to ask you something' boosts confidence by showing you value someone's knowledge.