health
March 3, 2026
In Defense of Effeminate Boys
If anyone had suggested that I might really be a girl, I don’t know how I would have responded.
TL;DR
- The author experienced bullying as an effeminate boy in public school after a sheltered upbringing in a fundamentalist Christian community.
- He questions whether modern pediatric gender medicine correctly distinguishes between gender nonconformity and gender dysphoria, potentially medicalizing what could be natural variations in sexual orientation.
- Concerns are raised about the rapid provision of puberty blockers and hormone treatments to minors with insufficient evaluation, and the lack of robust research on long-term outcomes.
- The author notes a backlash against medical interventions for minors in some regions, while also criticizing activist-driven approaches within LGBTQ+ communities that he feels stifle debate.
- He argues for a more nuanced societal acceptance of effeminate boys, allowing them to express themselves without pressure to change or undergo medical transition, and emphasizes the need for honest communication with confused children.
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