health
March 15, 2026
This is how we do it: ‘We’re more adventurous now
When they lived in different countries, sex was spontaneous for Rupert and Eva, but now they cohabit they experiment more
TL;DR
- Long-distance sex was spontaneous, but living together requires actively creating space for intimacy.
- Rupert and Eva schedule sex and try new things to keep their relationship adventurous.
- Eva, who previously felt shame around sex, now enjoys a significantly more satisfying sex life with Rupert.
- They have experimented with role-playing, including submission and restriction.
- Adding a mirror near the bed has introduced a new layer of exploration to their sex life.
- The couple now has sex between one and three times a week, and sees this as a normal reduction from their long-distance phase.
- They advocate for the 'sex first' rule before going on dates for increased intimacy and stress relief.
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