My partner’s obnoxious conduct at our sons’ football matches is putting me off him
His behaviour is certainly inappropriate, but take a quiet moment to try to find out where the anger is coming from
TL;DR
- Partner exhibits aggressive behavior at sons' football matches, including shouting, criticism, and swearing at teenagers.
- This behavior is causing embarrassment to the reader and tension for the sons and their teammates.
- Attempts by the reader, sons, and coaches to address the behavior have been unsuccessful.
- The reader is questioning her love for her partner due to his lack of respect and selfish actions.
- A psychotherapist suggests the partner's behavior might stem from his own experiences, ego, or unaddressed frustrations.
- The therapist recommends exploring the partner's past, his perception of support, and how others perceive him.
- Understanding the root cause of his anger and frustration is key to addressing the behavior.
- The advice emphasizes that such behavior is not motivating, not sportsmanlike, and that empathy and calmer reflection are needed.