music
March 31, 2026
'It was an exorcism': how heartbreak, queer rebirth and finding love over Only Connect shaped Wendy Eisenberg’s stunning new album
The guitarist made their name on dazzlingly knotty musicianship and collaboration with the likes of Bill Orcutt. So their new album is their most surprising: a startlingly beautiful reflection of love and self-acceptance
TL;DR
- Eisenberg experienced a profound personal transformation after a significant breakup, leading to a "queer rebirth" and embracing their nonbinary identity.
- This transformation influenced their latest album, which leans into the melodic and playful styles of 70s folk-rock, moving away from previous experimentalism.
- The album's orchestration, by partner Mari Rubio, emphasizes beauty and grace, reflecting Eisenberg's newfound sense of comfort and happiness.
- Eisenberg's musical journey began in childhood, influenced by various genres from classic rock to jazz, and evolved through collaborations and solo work.
- The album's themes include existential changes, self-acceptance, and the journey toward love with Rubio, with some songs referencing past trauma.
- Finding love with Rubio was facilitated by Eisenberg's increased self-acceptance and readiness to connect with someone equally unique.