health
February 11, 2026
A moment that changed me: I wasn’t sure about my relationship. Then my boyfriend went missing on 9/11
I was quite spoiled and he could be a little dour. But on that terrible day, when he was just two blocks away when the South Tower exploded, I realised he was all I wanted
TL;DR
- The author met Chris in 1997 at the University of Oxford and they became a couple despite their differing backgrounds and personalities.
- Their relationship progressed through long distance, moves to London and New York, and shared life experiences.
- On September 11, 2001, Chris was near the World Trade Center when the towers were attacked, and the author experienced intense fear and uncertainty about his safety.
- The author's realization of how close she came to losing Chris on 9/11 transformed her perspective on their relationship, leading to a deep, unwavering love.
- This profound realization solidified their commitment, leading to their marriage in 2003 and a lasting bond that has faced significant life challenges.
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