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I’ve studied over 200 kids—parents who have the closest relationships with their adult kids never do 6 things
Every parent hopes their adult child will still want to call, still want to come home, and still choose to let them in. Child psychologist Reem Raouda, who has studied over 200 kids, shares what not to do if you want your kids to stay close with you later on in life.
TL;DR
- Resist controlling your child; prioritize connection over obedience.
- Validate your child's emotions instead of dismissing them.
- Accept your child for who they are, rather than trying to change them.
- Separate your child's worth from their achievements.
- Avoid judging your child, especially during mistakes.
- Practice accountability by apologizing for your own mistakes.