‘She never says goodbye when she leaves’: the Romanian families separated by migration

Many thousands of children live with at least one parent working abroad in what is one of the EU’s poorest countries

‘She never says goodbye when she leaves’: the Romanian families separated by migration

TL;DR

  • Over 53,000 Romanian children have at least one parent working abroad, with over 10,000 having both parents or the sole provider away.
  • The actual number of children affected by parental migration is estimated to be much higher, possibly over 530,000, due to parents not formally transferring guardianship.
  • Economic disparities drive parents to seek employment in Western Europe, where wages are significantly higher than in Romania.
  • Children often take on adult responsibilities, such as caring for elderly relatives and managing households, leading to emotional distress.
  • The emotional impact on children includes feelings of guilt, anxiety, and aggression, with scarce psychological support available.
  • Maintaining emotional bonds is a major struggle for parents abroad, with many citing costs as a reason for not returning home.
  • Organizations like Save the Children provide after-school programs to support these children by offering activities, homework help, and meals.