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The One Change That Worked: I Felt Like an Outsider in My Village

I was isolated and nervous when I decided to roll up my sleeves and start volunteering. But I shouldn’t have been intimidated. It’s brought so much happiness and community into my life.

The One Change That Worked: I Felt Like an Outsider in My Village

TL;DR

  • The author felt isolated in her village despite having friends and family nearby.
  • She began volunteering with her children's Parent-Teacher Association (PTA) by helping at the summer fete.
  • The PTA experience was overwhelmingly positive, changing her opinion of volunteering and allowing her to connect with other parents.
  • She also started volunteering as a marshal at her local parkrun on Saturday mornings.
  • Volunteering helped her meet new people, boost her mood, and develop a deeper sense of community connection.
  • The author realized that actively participating and helping create community was the best way to feel rooted.