Should my husband stop letting our kids climb over our neighbour’s fence to get their ball back?

Penelope worries this will teach her children it’s OK to trespass; Spencer sees no harm in them hopping over. No sitting on the fence – you decide who’s in the wrong

Should my husband stop letting our kids climb over our neighbour’s fence to get their ball back?

TL;DR

  • A mother is upset her husband lets their children climb over the neighbor's fence to retrieve lost balls.
  • She views this as a disregard for boundaries and property rights, potentially encouraging disobedience.
  • The father argues it's a quick, harmless act that avoids the children's distress over not getting their ball back.
  • He also suggests his wife is overly dramatic and that their children are unlikely to cause damage.
  • Other parents offer opinions, with several agreeing that permission should be sought from the neighbors.
  • Some suggest alternative solutions like buying more balls or waiting for the neighbors to return the ball.