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This is how we do it: ‘Sex was something to get through with my husband. With Jess, I feel desire’
Meg was married to a man but had fantasised having sex with women for years. When she met Jess, her knees buckled
TL;DR
- Meg, who was married and had children, had long fantasized about sex with women but struggled to orgasm during heterosexual sex.
- Meeting Jess on Tinder led to an immediate connection, with Meg describing her knees buckling during their first kiss.
- Meg spent the initial months of the relationship learning to be present in her body and achieve orgasm without relying on fantasies.
- Jess, identifying as a butch top, finds pleasure in caring for Meg and her children, a role Meg is learning to accept.
- The couple has recently moved in together and are discussing the future, including how to maintain intimacy amidst real-life responsibilities.
- Both Meg and Jess express deep satisfaction and love in their relationship, with Jess feeling liberated by Meg's open desire.