I adore my husband but I feel a fraud at his church
Couples not sharing religious beliefs or going to each other’s places of worship isn’t unusual, but perhaps there’s something else going on here
TL;DR
- The author feels like a fraud in her husband's church because she doesn't share the congregation's beliefs or enthusiasm for theology, rituals, and hymns.
- She finds spirituality in nature and believes Christ was a good man, contrasting with her husband's strong faith.
- Despite their shared interests and affection, their differing religious beliefs and social circles create a rift, with church being another point of divergence.
- She suggested trying the Quakers, but her husband was uncomfortable, and she questions if he would be willing to experience discomfort for her sake.
- A psychotherapist advises her that she doesn't have to continue attending a church that makes her feel alienated and suggests exploring her own needs and past relationships.