Are They Still Your Friends if You Never See Them?
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TL;DR
- A 2021 survey indicates a significant increase in men reporting no close friends and dissatisfaction with their social connections.
- Social isolation is linked to severe health risks, including increased chances of dementia, heart disease, and stroke.
- The author reflects on his past friendships and how life events, fame, and personal habits led to their neglect.
- Attempts to reconnect with friends reveal varying levels of willingness and availability, with some proving more difficult to reach than others.
- A pivotal moment occurs when the author realizes his friend Seve is in significant pain, leading to a decision to prioritize seeing his friends in person.
- The article concludes with the author resolving to 'go see them all,' emphasizing the importance of taking risks for connection.