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My body is fat, not wrong: how body neutrality – not positivity – helped me shed a lifetime of shame
If I’d been taught this way of thinking as a child, I can’t begin to imagine how much easier things could have been
TL;DR
- Societal messages from childhood have often linked body size to personal worth and morality.
- The body positivity movement, while well-intentioned, was eventually commercialized and lost its original purpose.
- Body neutrality offers a more factual and less judgmental approach, stating 'My body is fat' without needing to attach positive affirmations.
- This perspective aligns with a literal understanding and helps to decouple body size from self-worth.
- Raising children with neutral language and avoiding forced positivity or shame can promote healthier self-perceptions.