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The Great Romance Slump

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The Great Romance Slump

TL;DR

  • The existence of numerous dating events, apps, and services suggests a time of "romantic plenty."
  • However, statistics show a "great romance slump," with fewer young adults entering marriages, cohabiting partnerships, and having steady partners.
  • A significant percentage of single young adults rarely or never go on dates, and sexual activity among young adults has decreased.
  • Events like "The Feels" aim to foster deeper connections through "somatic awareness" exercises, but can still result in awkwardness or unmet expectations.
  • Despite the desire for partnership, many singles struggle to find it, leading some to give up and others to invest more in services promising romantic success.
  • The author's personal experience at a "mindful singles event" illustrates the challenges and potential disappointments of these modern approaches to romance.