Couples who are 'truly close' use 8 phrases when talking about each other, says Harvard-trained psychologist
How well do you know your romantic partner? Harvard-trained psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Cortney Warren says couples who are "truly close" often use eight phrases when talking about each other.
TL;DR
- Genuine knowing involves understanding and respecting a partner's likes, dislikes, passions, and limits.
- Close couples often use phrases that acknowledge their partner's individuality and autonomy.
- Phrases like 'They are who they are' and 'I'm not surprised at all!' indicate deep understanding.
- Acknowledging and appreciating quirks, like 'They're quirky like that,' strengthens bonds.
- Trust is built on deep knowledge, leading to phrases like 'I trust them to be themselves.'
- Recognizing a partner's core values, even in disagreement, is crucial for intimacy.
- Empathy for struggles, expressed through phrases like 'They struggle with that,' fosters connection.
- Accepting a partner's unchangeable traits, stated as 'I can't change them,' is vital.
- Continuous learning about a partner, even in long-term relationships, keeps intimacy alive.
- Ways to get to know a partner better include asking open-ended questions, practicing empathy, and showing presence.