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I’m 17 and very sensitive to graphic content. Does this mean I’m immature?

Maturity has little to do with watching things you don’t want to, writes advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith. But it might help to be curious about why you feel differently from your peers

I’m 17 and very sensitive to graphic content. Does this mean I’m immature?

TL;DR

  • A 17-year-old feels insecure about their aversion to drugs, alcohol, relationships, and graphic content, viewing it as a sign of immaturity.
  • Advice columnist Eleanor Gordon-Smith distinguishes between things one isn't ready for and things one dislikes, suggesting the latter doesn't need to change.
  • Maturity is defined as self-acceptance and kindness towards others, not conformity to adult-oriented media or activities.
  • It's suggested to explore the reasons for personal aversions and understand why others might react differently to such content.