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Keeping my dead wife’s books safe for our son helped me let go of guilt
Reading with him, I am reminded of the world of words his mother and I shared. I no longer feel so overwhelmed
TL;DR
- The author experienced paralyzing guilt when organizing his late wife's books.
- Guilt after losing a spouse is common and can stem from everyday actions.
- The physical books became a cosmic connection to the fear and wonder of the printed word and the human dance with death.
- Jeff VanderMeer's novel 'Absolution' resonated with themes of grief, decay, and the allure of physical things.
- Reading with his son provided joy and a connection to his late wife's world, lessening the guilt.
- The author found self-forgiveness and recognized the unique nature of navigating grief.
- Wife's books and photo were placed near their son's room for future discovery.