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Why every woman can see herself in the story of a German celebrity couple’s split

Many will recognise their own experiences of digital abuse in Collien Fernandes’s allegations – technology offers perpetrators both tools and cover

Why every woman can see herself in the story of a German celebrity couple’s split

TL;DR

  • Collien Fernandes alleges her husband, Christian Ulmen, subjected her to domestic violence and identity abuse, including creating fake profiles to distribute sexualized images.
  • Fernandes has spoken publicly about digital violence for years, even making a documentary on the subject.
  • She claims Ulmen confessed to the abuse after her documentary's release, stating his motivation was humiliation.
  • Ulmen denies the allegations, with his lawyer stating he never produced or distributed deepfake videos.
  • Fernandes highlights a legal gap in Germany for identity abuse, contrasting it with Spain's strengthened framework for digital and gender-based violence.
  • The case has sparked protests against gender-based violence in Germany, with Fernandes facing security concerns.
  • The article frames Fernandes's experience as representative of broader issues faced by many women regarding digital humiliation and loss of control.
  • German politician Friedrich Merz's response is criticized for redirecting the conversation to migrant men, despite Ulmen being a white German man.
  • The case prompts discussion on how societies define violence in the digital age and whether legal systems can keep pace with technology.