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Family estrangement is more common than people think, but research shows the effects on wellbeing are mixed
Estrangement is not binary but a continuum of reducing contact. Support plays an important role, whether or not people seek to reconcile
TL;DR
- Family estrangement is more common than often believed and exists on a continuum of reduced contact.
- Reasons for estrangement include abuse, neglect, substance misuse, value differences, and divorce.
- The effects of estrangement on wellbeing are mixed, often depending on the specific reasons for the rupture.
- Support, offering warmth, validation, and safety, is vital for individuals experiencing estrangement, irrespective of reconciliation prospects.
- Ambiguous loss, grief for a living person with whom a relationship has ended, is a significant challenge for those estranged, lacking traditional rituals.
- Support groups can help reduce shame and distress by validating these losses.