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Think your parent is neurodivergent? Here’s what you need to know

Up to 97% of autistic people over 60 are undiagnosed. Experts offer up advice for family members on how to support this ‘neglected generation’

Think your parent is neurodivergent? Here’s what you need to know

TL;DR

  • Up to 97% of autistic people over 60 are undiagnosed, a group often referred to as a 'neglected generation'.
  • Retirement and life changes can disrupt routines and increase challenges for older neurodivergent individuals.
  • Key indicators of neurodivergence in older adults include significant distress when routines are disrupted and difficulties managing social situations.
  • Masking autistic traits can become more difficult with age as the nervous system has less capacity to hide them.
  • Seeking a diagnosis for older adults can provide a framework for understanding their life experiences and facilitate living more authentically.
  • Families can broach the subject of neurodivergence by sharing information gradually and drawing parallels with potential shared traits or neurodivergent celebrities.
  • Late-life diagnosis can be therapeutic, helping to explain past behaviors and bring families closer.
  • Support options include consulting GPs, seeking private assessments (with careful provider selection), and engaging with neurodivergent peer support groups.
  • Diagnosis can positively impact physical health by reducing chronic stress from masking and potentially improving access to beneficial treatments for conditions like ADHD.