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This is how we do it: ‘I’ve been pregnant for almost our entire relationship’

Sol and João had a whirlwind romance and now have a baby on the way – which has changed their sexual connection for better and worse … How do you do it? Share the story of your sex life, anonymously

This is how we do it: ‘I’ve been pregnant for almost our entire relationship’

TL;DR

  • Sol and João's romance was fast-paced, leading to an unplanned pregnancy within months of meeting.
  • Pregnancy has altered their sexual connection, with Sol experiencing a lack of arousal and orgasm, and both feeling more self-conscious.
  • João is attracted to the physical changes in Sol's body due to pregnancy.
  • The couple misses their previous spontaneous and intense sexual encounters.
  • Both hope their sexual connection will return to its former state after the baby is born.