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From Shrekking to Cookie-Jarring: How Well Do You Know the Latest Dating Terms?

In an app-based era, new dating tactics emerge rapidly and while you may have deployed one or been subject to one, how many of the following are real?

From Shrekking to Cookie-Jarring: How Well Do You Know the Latest Dating Terms?

TL;DR

  • Breadcrumbing: Sparse attention to maintain interest without commitment.
  • Ghostlighting: Disappearing and reappearing later as if nothing happened.
  • Floodlighting: Oversharing to feign vulnerability and create quick intimacy.
  • Process doppelganging: Sabotaging a second date intentionally and blaming an alter ego.
  • Cuffing: Entering a relationship to avoid being single for a period.
  • Cookie-jarring: Keeping someone as a backup option for when feeling insecure or rejected.
  • Pocketing: Keeping a new partner secret from friends and family.
  • Shrekking: Dating someone physically unattractive hoping for better treatment.
  • Collie-modelling: Emulating an eager-to-please energy to be a desirable partner.
  • Wildflowering: Dating without specific expectations or strategies.
  • Choremancing: Meeting up for errands or activities as a form of low-key dating.
  • Monkey-barring: Starting a new relationship before ending the previous one.
  • Reckfulness: A return to a cautious, slow approach to dating.
  • Chalance: An enthusiastic and engaged approach to dating, opposite of nonchalance.
  • Wanderlove: Openness to romance in exotic locales or using apps while on holiday.
  • Clear-coding: Being honest about dating intentions.
  • Lime-biking: Abruptly ending a relationship when the initial excitement fades.
  • Zip coding: Limiting dating searches to a specific local area.
  • Thermocoupling: Arranging first dates in saunas to see people in a vulnerable state.
  • Banksying: Planning a breakup meticulously and executing it without warning.